since a while ago, we're anyway just discarding the internal buffer anyway when the packet is repeatedly encoded, so this doesn't serve any advantage anymore.
We do need a system to be able to reuse encoded packet buffers, but right now we're not reusing them anyway.
this is not complete yet, but the final change (having the binarystream actually come from outside) is a little more disruptive, and some extra changes need to be made. This will grant some sanity in the meantime without breaking too much stuff.