Update total count tracking to always consider the wrapper object

discord/ui/action_row.py

@@ -203,6 +203,11 @@ class ActionRow(Item[V]):
     def width(self):
         return 5
 
+    @property
+    def _total_count(self) -> int:
+        # 1 for self and all children
+        return 1 + len(self._children)
+
     @property
     def type(self) -> Literal[ComponentType.action_row]:
         return ComponentType.action_row